Texas Estate Planning

Blunders in Estate Planning May Lead to Breach of Family Harmony

The Financial Post’s recent article entitled “Avoid these five mistakes when estate planning to preserve family peace” provides us with some of the biggest mistakes:

1. Treating family members differently. People do this frequently. They may have valid reasons for doing so. However, it’s still not a great idea. Instead, comfortably tell your children in advance why you’re doing this. This will avoid anger and jealousy between the children when they discover this. Try to leave assets equally, even if you don’t think it is fair.
2. Pass the family vacation home to multiple children. It's best to either sell the home in your later years or, if you keep it, make sure it is openly discussed. You might set up life insurance to specifically pay taxes and perhaps one or two children, so the remaining children can afford to keep the cottage. Even so, a sale is the cleanest approach.
3. Don’t tell the children anything about your money. Not a good idea. This approach often eliminates any ability to understand what might be most meaningful to your children or beneficiaries. Maybe less so in terms of cash, but in terms of family heirlooms or property. Perhaps a favorite piece of furniture was really important to two children, but there was never any discussion about it. As a result, it’s now completely left to them to fight over. This may sound like a small issue. However, many families have split up forever over just this type of scenario.
4. Purposely or inadvertently leaving most or all assets to a new spouse. It can occur by accident due to poor planning around ownership titles, lack of pre-nuptial agreements or the unintended naming of beneficiaries on investment accounts or life insurance. However, sometimes, it’s meant to hurt the children. The hurt can certainly go both ways and is frequently a major issue when a spouse isn’t treated fairly. Ask an experienced estate planning attorney to walk through this with you.
5. Significant charitable giving. If your gifts to charity aren’t discussed with your so-called traditional beneficiaries, there can be conflicts with the charity that can be drawn out.

Communicate what you’re doing and why to your family.

Reference: Financial Post (Nov. 9, 2022) “Avoid these five mistakes when estate planning to preserve family peace”

 

Exactly Why Do I Need a Will?

Some people mistakenly think not having a will allows their assets to bypass the time and expense of probate. That’s not true–if you die without a will, your property still must go through probate, says Fed Week’s recent article entitled “The Importance of Having a Will.”

If probate avoidance is an issue, you can create a revocable trust to keep control over the trust assets while you’re alive.

Assets placed in trust during your lifetime can be distributed at your death, under the terms of the trust, without going through probate.

There are many types of trusts, and they all establish a financial arrangement between three parties:

• The Trustor
• The Trustee; and
• The Beneficiaries.

The person creating the trust is known as the trustor or grantor. The trustee manages the trust and disperses income or principal from the trust according to specific terms.

When you draft a will, you shouldn’t forget about it. Any births, deaths, marriages or divorces all may create a need to revisit your so-called “last wishes.”

After each change, make sure your current will is both safe and accessible. You can leave your will with your executor. If you decide to keep your will somewhere else, your executor and other family members should know its location. The estate planning attorney who prepared your will should have a copy, as well as a memo revealing the location of the original.

Regardless of where you put your will, have another document for your funeral and burial instructions. Wills generally aren’t read until days or weeks after death, so that won’t help your family make prompt decisions about a funeral or a memorial service.

As a result, a separate letter should be used to specify your final wishes and your executor should know where these instructions can be found.

Ask an experienced estate planning attorney to help you write your will.

Reference: Fed Week (Nov. 2, 2022) “The Importance of Having a Will”

Princeton's Largest Ever Bequest

William Scheide inherited a startling collection that his grandfather had started. The collection has been maintained at Princeton University since 1959. When Scheide passed away a few months ago, he left the entire collection to the university.

It is worth approximately $300 million.

Recently, Princeton released to the public the contents of the collection, as reported by The Telegraph in "Emily Dickinson's chocolate pudding recipe and nine other highlights from Princeton's $300m book haul."

Other highlights from the Scheide collection include:

• A copy of the original Gutenberg Bible
• One of Beethoven's musical sketchbooks
• Three original Shakespeare folios
• Handwritten sheet music from Bach, Mozart, Wagner and others
• An autographed speech by President Lincoln
• General Grant's copybooks from the last weeks of the Civil War
• A copy of the Koran from 1700

Even if you do not have an amazing collection to leave to your favorite charity, consult an experienced estate planning attorney for ideas on how to leverage what you do have for good.

Reference: The Telegraph (February 18, 2015) "Emily Dickinson's chocolate pudding recipe and nine other highlights from Princeton's $300m book haul."